Some couples want a hint of glow, while others want their whole venue bathed in candlelight. No matter your style, candles are one of the easiest ways to set the mood for your wedding. The key? Figuring out just how much candlelight you want.
From subtle accents to all-out drama, there’s a “candle vibe” for everyone. Let’s break it down.
The Soft Glow: Minimalist Candlelight
If you’re a “less is more” kind of couple, minimalist candlelight might be your perfect fit. It’s all about simple, thoughtful touches that add warmth without stealing the show.
Picture a single taper candle at each place setting or a few floating candles scattered across your tables. It’s subtle, understated, and effortlessly chic. This vibe works perfectly for modern, intimate weddings or venues that already have a lot of natural light.
What It Feels Like: Clean, sophisticated, and light—just enough glow to keep things cozy.
The Balanced Glow: Just Enough to Make an Impact
For couples who want their candlelight to be noticeable (but not overwhelming), a balanced approach is where it’s at. Think rows of taper candles on long tables, clusters of votives around floral centerpieces, or soft candlelight framing your aisle.
It’s that sweet spot where the candles become a central part of the decor without stealing focus from everything else. Balanced candlelight works beautifully for classic, romantic weddings that feel elegant but approachable.
What It Feels Like: Warm, inviting, and timeless—perfect for creating a cozy-yet-elevated atmosphere.
The All-Out Glow: Heavy Candlelight
If you’re dreaming of walking into a room filled with flickering light, heavy candlelight is calling your name. This is for the couples who want their wedding to feel dramatic, luxurious, and undeniably romantic.
Picture candles everywhere: lining your aisle, surrounding your ceremony space, spilling across your tablescapes, and scattered around your dance floor. It’s the kind of setup that makes guests stop in their tracks the moment they walk in.
What It Feels Like: Bold, dramatic, and straight out of a fairytale—a true showstopper.
How to Find Your Candle Sweet Spot
The best part about candles is that they’re flexible. You can go all in with hundreds or keep it simple with just a few key placements. The right vibe depends on:
• Your Venue: A grand ballroom might call for heavy candlelight, while an outdoor garden might shine with a balanced glow.
• Your Style: Are you drawn to minimalist, modern decor or something rich and romantic?
• Your Vision: Think about how you want your space to feel—intimate and cozy, or bold and magical?
It’s All About the Glow
Whether you’re going for a little flicker or a full-on candlelit masterpiece, the beauty of candles is that they can be whatever you want them to be. They’re not just decor—they’re part of the atmosphere, the romance, and the story of your day.
So, what’s your candle vibe?
